kasyfi 0 Report post Posted August 11, 2007 First of all please don't label me a romeo .. ;pI recently read this question on a blog..and it has just come across my mind..I would like to know other people's point of view on this matter...What has locked you into making the same relationship mistakes again and again?It is very rare for people to make real changes in their behavior based on previous mistakes. Often people make the same relationship mistakes again and again. It is helpful to look at the reasons why people seem to get stuck in a cycle of repetition compulsion. So, what locks you in and prevents you from learning from your own mistakes? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
versanner 0 Report post Posted August 17, 2007 (edited) Myself, and my likings haha . It is really difficult to change something that has been with s for such a long time.... Edited August 17, 2007 by versanner Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kecibung 4 Report post Posted October 10, 2007 That is because of the habit - the most you want to do in the easiest way. But there is still a room for improvement. Everyone can improve, just that he/she want to do it or not. Just ask yourself, what is the problem. If not, ask the friends. Lastly, you can even pray, ask for help and 'hidayah' from God.The second opinoin is maybe you've been cursed. Whatever you do, you still doing the same mistakes. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kasyfi 0 Report post Posted October 11, 2007 yep and I read about this opinion on how do I do when I make a mistake; and that a genius does too:When you make a mistake, there are only three things you should ever do about it:1-Admit it2- Learn from it3- Don't ever repeat it...well guess when you've cheated on your girlfriend or you promised her to give a call but never did so;just follow those above...wish the relationship remains good.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
